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Realizations - III

Last week my mind got so full, as few things turned upside down, little criticism slammed and misunderstandings snowed :(.

And here I was with a new set of realizations:


  1. All the relationships have to be worked out. No matter how good things are in the beginning, over the time some discordance creeps in and has to be settled; that's how everything grows strong or every strong thing grows :).
  2. Watch people you surround yourself with, sooner or later you get a part of them. Even if 'they have lots of knowledge/wisdom' or 'how much you trust them', don't get carried away. 
  3. Be what you are! Don’t be overly nice with people you want to keep forever for a ‘sense of belonging’ or ‘he/she might feel bad’ or ‘what would they think about me’.  
  4. Keep the secrets. Everyone has their own best friend to share it with :& ;).
  5. Criticism & Sarcasm are to make you feel more alive; you still exist, see!!! .  Understand what is to be taken care of but take it easy and don’t be a killjoy :D.
  6. Perfection & Happiness are not correlated. Both are different lines; we draw in our minds and sometimes coincide them.
  7. All friends are not meant to understand you . Value those who do and also the other ones, they too are friends anyways ;).
  8. Nothing is perfect but can be made as good as we want it to be :).  
Happy Reading!
Cheers~ 
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