Skip to main content

Realizations – I

In the last few months I have felt these things very often(with some own & some others' experiences), so thought it would be a good idea to list them down for future reference; to later on either giggle at my unripe wisdom or take pride in premature enlightenment…
All I mean is that the "But" part always existed but I Realized it lately!

Here it goes!

You will have complains with everyone you meet..Including your parents, siblings, spouse, best friends…
But .. Grumble won’t last forever …so Don’t hurt them.. They are all you have..
(Go and apologize :P)

If you really love someone and want to be with them you would do anything to be with them…
But.. If you start finding excuses..  There is something wrong !!
(Time to rethink :O)

We all are different and beautiful creations of God …It’s better to focus on the positive side of any person....
But while making a choice don’t be completely blindfolded by the virtues…
(The vices might not spare you too: P)

A graduate/post graduate from an ordinary university can be much more logical and understanding than an alumni from IITs, IIMs or even ISI for that matter...
Your degree matters But you matter more..
 (Be proud of yourself ;))

Nothing/Nobody is perfect including you …
But that’s what makes everyone beautiful & everything colorful...else the world would be just black & white…
(Appreciate everyone aroundJ)

A white collar job brings money, gives you a designation and helps you earn certain respect   …
But Business is no less good; it needs guts, brings more money and may entitle you as C.E.O...sounds WOW hmm..
(Time to switch career: P)

Would come up with the sequel of this post soon as I am realizing one more thing …
I need to improve writing skills :P !!!

Happy Reading!

Popular posts from this blog

LoVe Dose

As I always say discovering yourself is the most interesting and exciting thing in the world. After all, we feel everything inside us and when we know what can sparkle us we can try to find it :) !

There is a saying 'Love heals', it definitely does. But, every healer has a recommended dose and unless you are given as much as you need, nothing helps!  Recently, I had a brief encounter with an old acquaintance and it somehow clarified (and reminded), how much dose could put me back together..  The little gestures that could carry me away...
That unspoken agreement where you don't need to say everything ! That warmth which comes from being safeguarded. The comfort that is created after being vulnerable and yet not being judged. That extraordinary care where little 'extra' makes the big difference. And not to forget the intelligence , none can deny its charm and the respect it breeds! 
The best part of this experience was, it was devoid of any sweet words! Imagine the mag…

Slice of a lost story - 1

Once while on their usual commute in the local train, she asked, "I often wonder why almost everyone
starts staring at me as soon as I enter the compartment. I know I ain’t that beautiful"!

And he replied, "when a cute kid comes around, don’t you feel like gazing upon him , googli woosh his cheeks, even talk and play with him if allowed ? …........ you are like that kid"!


Sometimes I don’t need big reasons to shed tears, just a little pinch and I am unstoppable. As far as I remember myself, it has always been that way, I could be hurt with a single word (not even a complete sentence). As a kid I was always told that I was morose and I believed it to be true until recently when I discovered ‘you are what you think you are’ and I replaced ‘being morose’ with ‘being sensitive’. I am not sure how many would get it, there are some people with whom we get really comfortable, to the extent that the child in us could dare to reveal itself! What if those people didn’t react to our childlike mannerism and instead termed it childish. It would be like thrashing that child mentally; which would eventually suppress his craving for being cosseted. Probably it was always suppressed, even when this person was actually a child and so he always felt being love deprived no matter how good several other things were.  So the probable solution is to train the mind to apprecia…